This is the third of your articles I've read in succession. Very nice and insightful. This one though hits me at an annoyance of mine. I'm OK with integrating my conscious and unconscious, and I can deal with what made me, but there are things that have made me so complicated, that there is no way to figure out really who I am... or get near it even. I mean, I can look at items in my life and deal with what I need to, but I'm so far at the end of the bell curves that I can't often use other people's views and figuring out things on your own is not only hard, but limited. I'm smart, but that problem has always been beyond me.