This is great.

I have no idea what my wife's needs are and she isn't about to let me know. She may not have any besides her children.

She sure doesn't care about my needs or wants and there is no way she's going to communicate with me. We have great foundational compatibility, our views are the same, but as for romance, not happening. I will be OK if I can just a get a bit of companionship. We'll see.