Thank you for your response. I like flowers... but know not to give them to her... She's too sensitive to all kinds of environmental stuff.
... When the kids were about 7, something made her angry and she stayed that way. Sex... you have to be kidding me.
I have a pretty good knowledge not just of her hearings, but of the history of the interesting ones.
She once said she had love for her children, but not enough for me. Intellectually and in other ways, we are so compatible. She just doesn't want to give love or any energy into the relationship. It's so sad.