So what kind is that? I am who I am. Philosophically I'm a Stoic mostly.
My physical power is greater than 99% of men out there, but I will never be pretty. Too pasty looking.
I am well known for taking people on adventures.
I'm highly intelligent, which allows me to be good at humor and it allows me to communicate well and even build people. Oh, I'm a techie. I've always made money.
My nature is very loving.
I am disciplined because of my strengths, not my weaknesses.
I have never felt attractive to women. (Though my buddy's GF's and wives all love me.)
I really think the question is not then who I should be. It is who I am. Is that the kind or should I become someone else?