I'm way too big to be fashionable. (when working out daily, I once got down to 225 and was told I looked sickly). Also, I just look intimidating. My manners are a bit old fashioned... so women often think I'm trying to pick up on them at unexpected times ... and guys just think I'm weird. I avoid eye contact because it can be intimidating... if my size isn't enough. I have poor hearing, so I have to concentrate on that, which sort of removes eye contact and ... confuses people. ... Yeah, that's what I'm best at, confusing people and women don't much like that.