I get the impression that the problem here is that he's a Southern Baptist.

Also, apparently his work is invalid because of his relationship problems. Well, I have problems with my relationship and that's why I read articles like this. To learn to improve my relationship, like he did. I'm motivated... like he was.

It is commonly, very commonly, stated that an essential key to a good relationship, especially marriage, is communication. Coming from where I am now, if I was starting a relationship, one of the first questions I'd ask her is what her language of love is. Literally true or not, it seems one of the best ways to start that communication. It would emphasize the responsibility of both parties to understand each other, an invaluable thing in any relationship.

For the complainers, I'd recommend reading "Touch" by Ashley Montague who describes the profound importance of touch to human mental health and development... long before the person is old enough to b interested in sex.